It's All Relative

The other day some people and I were talking about the dress of the kids today and how reveling it was and how provocative it is to the opposite sex. Obviously we were talking about high school girls or young women. I said it is all relative to the time period you grow up in. There was a time if girls or young women showed there ankles it was provocative. When I grew up, we wore "tight " sweaters to be "sexy and than along came the mini skirts and that was provocative.

We were discussing this in the view that men couldn't control themselves. I feel that only "sick" men cannot control themselves otherwise old women wouldn't get raped, Babies wouldn't get raped. This type of behavior has nothing to do with sex but control. People ,men or women, who have no power with out control will rape or use sex to control others. People who need this power will "blame " the other person but healthy people will not rape someone else in the need for sex.

Each age or generation feel that there teens or girls dress to sexy but in reality it is just because they become mother's or father's. In the role of parents they become protective of the children and want them protected and don't want them to go through the things they experienced. I think Father's are a little more protective because they know how they treated their dates.